Teen Slang · Social & friendship

What does “Xoxo” mean?

'Hugs and kisses,' a sign-off showing affection. 'See you soon, xoxo.'

Where “Xoxo” comes from

Decades-old letter-writing shorthand (X = kiss, O = hug); still used in texts and posts.

Why teens actually say it

A warm, affectionate way to close a message.

What it means for you as a parent

Completely benign. No concern.

How it’s used

  • “See you soon, xoxo.” Affectionate sign-off to a friend or partner. Sweet and warm.
  • “Love you, text me later, xoxo.” Closing a message with hugs and kisses. Caring and tender.

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