Teen Slang · Social & friendship

What does “Throw shade” mean?

Subtly insult or mock someone.

Where “Throw shade” comes from

Ballroom vocabulary mainstream via TV.

Why teens actually say it

Names indirect criticism.

What it means for you as a parent

Benign — note if it's a constant social tactic.

How it’s used

  • “She just threw shade at my outfit.” Catching a sly, indirect insult. Mildly stung.
  • “Not me throwing shade in the group chat.” Owning a subtle dig with a guilty grin.

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