Teen Slang · Social & friendship

What does “Tea” mean?

Gossip or drama. 'Spill the tea' = tell me the gossip.

Where “Tea” comes from

From Black drag culture (the 'T' for truth), mainstreamed through reality TV and social media.

Why teens actually say it

A fun, social frame for sharing news and drama within a friend group.

What it means for you as a parent

Usually harmless. Only worth a look if the 'tea' is fueling exclusion or bullying.

How it’s used

  • “Okay wait, spill the tea, what happened?” Eager for gossip from a friend. Curious and excited.
  • “I have so much tea from this weekend.” Bursting to share drama. Animated and a little gleeful.

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