Teen Slang · Dating & relationships

What does “Talking stage” mean?

The early, undefined phase of getting to know a romantic interest before officially dating. 'We're in the talking stage.'

Where “Talking stage” comes from

Modern dating term that spread widely on TikTok around 2020–21.

Why teens actually say it

Names the ambiguous, often anxious limbo before a relationship is defined.

What it means for you as a parent

A real and emotionally significant stage for teens. A natural opening to ask about their dating world without prying.

How it’s used

  • “We’re not official, we’re just in the talking stage.” Naming the uncertain early phase. A little hopeful, a little guarded.
  • “The talking stage is so stressful, I never know where I stand.” Anxious about an undefined romance. Wants clarity.

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