Teen Slang · Social & friendship

What does “Snowflake” mean?

A dismissive insult for someone seen as overly sensitive or easily offended. 'Don't be a snowflake.'

Where “Snowflake” comes from

Became a political/cultural insult in the 2010s; absorbed into teen slang as a put-down.

Why teens actually say it

Teens use it to mock someone for being too sensitive.

What it means for you as a parent

Can be a casual jab or genuine bullying. If your teen is being called this, it's worth gently checking how it lands.

How it’s used

  • “It’s a joke, don’t be a snowflake.” Dismissing someone as too sensitive. Can sting or shut down feelings.
  • “They called me a snowflake for speaking up.” Recounting being mocked for caring. Hurt under the brush-off.

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