Teen Slang · Dating & relationships

What does “Slide into DMs” mean?

To send someone a private direct message, usually to flirt or start a conversation. 'He slid into her DMs.'

Decoded for parents by Pouya & Hengameh, parents of two — the team behind My Teen's World.

Where “Slide into DMs” comes from

From 'DM' (direct message); the 'slide' implies a smooth, casual approach. Common since the mid-2010s.

Teens use it to describe initiating private contact, often romantic.

Normal way teens flirt now. Worth knowing who's sliding into a younger teen's DMs, since strangers can too.

“He finally slid into her DMs last night.” Gossiping about a private flirty message. Curious and amused.
“Should I slide into his DMs or not?” Nervous excitement about making a first move online.