Teen Slang · Social & friendship

What does “Slay” mean?

To do something impressively well, or look great. 'You slayed that.' Often genuine praise.

Where “Slay” comes from

From Black and LGBTQ+ ballroom culture, mainstreamed via drag and pop music in the 2010s.

Why teens actually say it

Enthusiastic encouragement — hyping up a friend's success or style.

What it means for you as a parent

Positive. Can be used ironically, but the core meaning is supportive.

How it’s used

  • “You nailed that presentation, slay.” Genuine praise for doing something impressively well. Encouraging.
  • “New haircut? Okay slay, you look amazing.” Hyping someone’s look with real enthusiasm. Supportive.

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