Teen Slang · Dating & relationships

What does “Simp” mean?

Someone seen as doing too much for a person they like, especially without it being returned. 'He's simping for her.'

Where “Simp” comes from

Old slang ('simpleton') that exploded on TikTok and Twitch in 2019-2020 as a teasing label.

Why teens actually say it

Teens use it to tease friends for being overly devoted to a crush.

What it means for you as a parent

Usually playful ribbing. The concept can carry an unhealthy edge — mocking kindness as weakness — so a light conversation helps if it comes up a lot.

How it’s used

  • “He’s simping so hard, buying her stuff and she ignores him.” Teasing a friend for over-investing in a one-sided crush.
  • “Stop simping and just talk to her like a normal person.” Ribbing someone for doing too much over a crush.

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