Teen Slang · Social & friendship

What does “Queer” mean?

Umbrella term for LGBTQ+ identities, also a reclaimed identity label.

Where “Queer” comes from

Once a slur, reclaimed since the 1990s by LGBTQ+ communities.

Why teens actually say it

Identity vocabulary your teen may be exploring.

What it means for you as a parent

If your teen identifies this way, warmth and curiosity matter most. The Trevor Project has parent resources.

How it’s used

  • “I’m queer and I’m proud of it.” Claiming an identity openly. Self-affirming, matter-of-fact.
  • “It’s a really welcoming queer space.” Describing an inclusive LGBTQ+ community. Warm, belonging.

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