Teen Slang · Social & friendship

What does “It girl” mean?

A culturally dominant, effortlessly stylish woman teens admire. 'She's such an it girl.'

Where “It girl” comes from

1920s magazine vocabulary, revived on Twitter and TikTok.

Why teens actually say it

Names a specific kind of style and influence aspiration.

What it means for you as a parent

Benign aspiration. Watch only for the unattainable-standard side of it.

How it’s used

  • “She walks in and the room shifts — total it girl.” Admiring someone’s effortless cool and pull. A little envy.
  • “New haircut, new fit, it girl energy unlocked.” Hyping herself up, claiming confidence and style.

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