Teen Slang · Social & friendship

What does “ILY / ILYSM” mean?

'I love you' / 'I love you so much.' Casual or sincere.

Where “ILY / ILYSM” comes from

Texting shorthand, now ubiquitous.

Why teens actually say it

Quick affection between friends, family, partners.

What it means for you as a parent

Usually benign. Pay attention if a stranger sends 'ILY' to your teen.

How it’s used

  • “You covered my shift? ILYSM.” Warm gratitude to a friend for a real favor. Sincere affection.
  • “Night night, ILY.” Casual, easy love signing off a chat with someone close.

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