Teen Slang · Online & texting

What does “Gatekeep” mean?

To hoard information or access, refusing to share a recommendation, source, or community. 'Stop gatekeeping that brand.'

Where “Gatekeep” comes from

Internet culture term that went mainstream via the 'gatekeep, gaslight, girlboss' meme.

Why teens actually say it

It calls out someone being stingy with knowledge or access.

What it means for you as a parent

Benign social commentary. No concern.

How it’s used

  • “Stop gatekeeping that thrift store, just tell me where.” Annoyed someone won’t share a find. Playfully frustrated.
  • “She gatekeeps her favorite artists so hard.” Calling out info-hoarding. Mildly exasperated.

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