Teen Slang · Social & friendship

What does “Flex” mean?

To show off. 'Stop flexing.' A 'flex' is a brag; 'weird flex but ok' mocks an odd brag.

Where “Flex” comes from

Hip-hop slang for showing off wealth, mainstreamed as a meme around 2018.

Why teens actually say it

Calls out (or playfully owns) showing off possessions, wins, or status.

What it means for you as a parent

Harmless. Worth noting if 'flexing' fuels material comparison or pressure.

How it’s used

  • “He keeps flexing his new phone in every photo.” Calling out showing off. Mild eye-roll.
  • “Weird flex but okay, I guess.” Mocking an odd thing to brag about. Sarcastic and amused.

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