Teen Slang · Dating & relationships

What does “DMs (slide into the DMs)” mean?

Direct (private) messages on a social app. To 'slide into the DMs' means to privately message someone, often to flirt.

Where “DMs (slide into the DMs)” comes from

Twitter and Instagram terminology that became dating shorthand in the mid-2010s.

Why teens actually say it

It's how teens make private contact, especially romantic interest, away from public comments.

What it means for you as a parent

Normal social behavior, but DMs are where unwanted contact and strangers can reach a teen. Worth knowing who's messaging.

How it’s used

  • “He finally slid into my DMs after liking all my posts.” Excited a crush made a private, flirty move. Butterflies.
  • “Just slide into her DMs and say hi already.” Nudging a friend to message a crush privately. Encouraging.

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