Teen Slang · Social & friendship

What does “Cringe” mean?

Embarrassing or awkward, especially someone trying too hard. 'That's so cringe.'

Decoded for parents by Pouya & Hengameh, parents of two — the team behind My Teen's World.

Where “Cringe” comes from

From the physical act of cringing; became a core internet judgment word through 'cringe compilation' videos in the 2010s.

It polices social norms — labeling what's seen as try-hard, out-of-touch, or secondhand-embarrassing.

Teens fear being 'cringe' intensely. Being called cringe by them is often affectionate teasing; pushing back hard usually backfires.

“Watching him flirt was so cringe, I had to leave.” Secondhand embarrassment at someone trying too hard. Half-amused.
“Don’t show my old posts, they’re cringe.” Wincing at their own past self. Self-conscious and joking.