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What does “Bullying” mean?

Repeated targeting with cruelty, in person or online, that creates power imbalance.

Where “Bullying” comes from

Long-standing English term that has expanded to include digital forms.

Why teens actually say it

Names a critical category of teen risk distinct from peer conflict.

What it means for you as a parent

If your teen is being bullied — believe them, document, escalate to school + counselor. If they're bullying — clear consequences, empathy work, and likely therapy.

How it’s used

  • “The bullying got so bad she switched schools.” Naming serious, repeated cruelty. A heavy, real disclosure.
  • “That’s not joking, that’s straight-up bullying.” Drawing a line between teasing and real harm. Standing up.

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