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Sleep & phone-away time

Their age + wake time → when the phone goes down.

Remember

The phone sleeps in the kitchen, so your teen sleeps in their bed.

The skill you're building

Protecting your teen's sleep with a specific, defensible phone-down time.

Make it yours
Age
Goes by
Phone

Why it matters

A calculator that takes your teen's age and wake-up time, then works backward to tell you when the phone should go down for the night. Teen sleep is one of the most important — and most quietly damaged — things in modern family life, and late-night screens are a major reason. Rather than a vague "don't stay up too late," it gives a specific phone-down time tied to a real wake-up. You get a clear, defensible cutoff for the device that protects the sleep your teen genuinely needs.

The tool

The exact nightly phone-down time based on your teen's age and wake-up.

Key points

  • Set a phone-down time, not just a bedtime.
  • Charge the phone outside the bedroom overnight.
  • Keep the cutoff consistent on weekends too.

The science

Sleep scientists consistently find that teenagers need substantially more sleep than adults, and their internal clocks naturally shift later during adolescence. Bright screens late at night and the pull of notifications both delay the body's wind-down and steal hours from an already tight window. Keeping a consistent cutoff and the phone out of the bedroom are among the most reliable ways to defend teen sleep. Because sleep underpins mood, focus, and health, this single boundary often improves far more than just bedtime.

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A one-page summary for the fridge — the takeaway, the skill you're building, and the key points.

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